Bad Culture

Today my office stenographer comes to my place (with paper and pen in her hands) and said:"Eh, KFC, you want to join or not, this Ms N going to marry." then I said (with selamba face) :" No." Her face then immediately turn into super black (already black in nature) and said:" You all har, hai,... " (think hardly to tease me) "Later no duit you all cannot have training...." then she goes away. Ms N is a HR gal who taking care of our internal training schedule. I wonder she kumpul the duit for her wedding or for our training? Really Funny~! Such stupid word also dare to say. they are so many people in my company, if each of them marry or get 1st baby then I have to give money, I will bankrupt~! So sorry~! If she comes and invites me personally to her wedding or she is my good friend then fine, I am happy to "join" you. but the fact is not. Arrange for training is her job, you don't need to collect money for her, company pay her every month. You do your job, not always come and ask for money. Please.